The 3 Things That Scare You Most About Buying a Home

Buying a home must up there with to public speaking and the remake of The Exorcist for frightful experiences, but many of us will buy a home, speak publicly and watch that movie again and again in our lifetimes.By giving you a few of the “behind-the-scenes” secrets, we

hope to help you deal with the 3 things that scare you most about buying a home.

1. The Cost

The greatest fear that people have about buying a home is being able to afford it. This is what keeps us awake at night – calculating and recalculating how many lunches we have to pack instead of going out with the gang, to be able to make the mortgage payment. The behind-thescenes secret to dealing with this fear is working with a great lender, getting pre-approved

BEFORE you start looking at homes, and being realistic about what you are willing and able to

spend. The lender will give you are range of loan options available, and if asked, will give you a realistic projection of what you can REALLY afford considering your budget and lifestyle.

2. The Commitment

Women like to stereotype men as having a fear of commitment – but when it comes to buying a

home, we’re all susceptible. Buying a home usually means committing money and time (at least

a year – usually more like 5 years) to being in one spot. If you’re just finishing a degree or training,  or you’re not sure that you’ll be in the same position for a while, you may consider

waiting until your life is a little more stable. The behind-the-scenes secret to dealing with the fear of commitment is in buying a home that will resell easily – that has features that other people will want. In addition, you can get a two-step mortgage, that allows you to pay a fixed rate for a certain period of time, and a flexible rate later on – so that you can get out of the loan

easily after the first step.

3. The People

Who can you trust in this home buying process? This is a big investment we’re talking about. And it seems that everyone is out to make as much money as possible OFF of you! There are sellers, real estate consultants, lenders, builders, movers, and attorneys, all of whom may be strangers, and have a vested interest when you buy a home. It’s easy to be afraid that they will take you to the cleaners. The behind-the-scenes secret is to check their references. Really. Many lenders and real estate consultants operate on a “By referral only” basis – in which

they ask clients to refer them to others they know are buying a home. Those who offer “lifetime relationships” and other services (like Free Reportsand seminars on buying or selling homes) are already striving to meet your needs. In reality, they are NOT all out to get you – because in the

long run, the BEST business strategy is to make sure that you get what you need and want in a

home.